Many say what does it take to be in a successful relationship, others say I cant deal wit it its just to much. But what does it really mean. I have been asking people for just a little under 24hrs to define in their words what a successful relationship is and everyone has said the same things. No they don't base it on how much money you have or what you can do for them as many do. I find it that many people see relationships as being able to communicate whenever they need to. A force field of love that surrounds them when all odds are up against them. Trust that no matter whats going on you will always be there, is what one calls it the building blocks of a successful relationship. These things are all true!! To be in a long lasting relationship whether straight, gay, bisexual, or what ever you prefer to be you have to make sure that the person you are with or trying to be with realizes that this is a 50/50 street. Yes I do love you but if your my best friend then I should be yours. I think people have gotten so caught up on what you can and cant do for me that they have lost site of the things that a person have to offer no materialistic. Now don't get me wrong I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with wanting to be wined and dined then getting slapped on the backside, but there is more then that.
Tell me what your dreams are, where do you see yourself in the next year, your favorite color are just a few things that could go on to help build a long lasting relationship. Doing little things just to show a person you are thinking about them through out the day like sending a text message saying just wanted to check on you or seeing hows your day going. You have to find some where to start and if you dont start at a good spot then things will crash and burn. Relationships as well as friendship and any other things you do can only be successful if you choose for it to be. You only get out what you have put in. If you have put in nothing but bullshit then thats what you will get out, but you have put in your all then the person you choose to be with will have no choice but to do the same. so ask your self are you living in a successful relationship or a horrible fantasy that you have allowed yourself to create???